Get the Guy   

How to get the guy of your dreams

1. Look neat and pretty around him. Clearly this is not possible if you have the same gym class, but you know what I mean : try to look as neat and pretty as possible within reason.

2. Be Friendly, but do not come on too strong : smile at the guyt, and say hi when you see him. If an opportunity for conversation crops up, seize it, but do not go out of your way to make this happen (for instance, don't pretend to bump into him then drop your tiara. Boys can see through ploys like this; the are not as dumb as the seem).

3. At this point in your relationship, try to keep things light. Don't blurt out all your problems - no matter how interesting or dramatic you might think them - or talk badly about mutual acquintances or gossip in a mean way. Remember, you are trying to impress him with your wit and charm, not scare him.

4. Don't forget to listen when it's his turn to say something. There is nothing more irresistible than a good listener. A good listener :
* Never interrupts * Makes eye contact * Lets the person say everything he or she has to say before speaking herself

5. Don't get upset if you have a lot of conversations with the same guy and he still doesn't ask you out. Boys do not mature as rapidly as girls and he may not even be thinking along those lines yet.

6. You may need to resort to more drastic measures, such as joining the same club he belongs to or showing up at the same events he attends, before he finally notices you. There is nothing wrong with feigning an interest in, say reptiles, if he is a snake-lover. But it is usually better once you are going out to admit that you don't really care for lizards... just for him! He will probably be flattered. Just make sure you genuinely do have a few things in common or you'll have nothing to talk about when the two of you do finally end up going out.

7. If, after all of this, the guy still hasn't asked you out, you may need to take the bull by the horns (so to speak) and ask him out yourself.


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